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Kids that young are still figuring out a great deal about themselves.
Discover her interests and help her find her niche in those things rather than expecting a relationship to fulfill her. check any book on adolescent boys and you'll see that that is exactly what thye are thinking... I have a 8yr old and I couldn't imagine her dating in a few more years that is for sure.Dating at 12 or 13 only puts her in situations she isn't prepared to deal with. We had no baby mama drama, drug issues, running wild, etc. Next week, she'll want to drive even though she does not have a permit. Im not saying your grandchild would be permiscuous but the pressure is deff there and I think 12 is just too young, why can't we let our kids be kids anymore she has the rest of her life to worry about men right now she should focus on school and some good girlfriends and things like sports or art and music.It's time for going to parties and outings with friends. Teach her about boys, dating, what she wants to be when she grows up. My husband and used similar parenting skills along with more open communication with our girls and it has worked out BEAUTIFULLY ! You've got to be the parent and set limits and discuss with her when things are age appropriate. dear dianne- i read your 'so what happened' - you sound angry! jmho second, you say your daughter isnt' thinking about sex...There is PLENTY of time for dating, help her find herself now and enjoy the time you have with her. watch what they are watching on television and how can a boy/young man think other than that? You are asking for trouble if you encourage it and allow this. Now if you granddaughter wants to go to the movies with a group of girl friends with your or another parents supervision, fine. Maybe 14/15 and that would be a better age, with a parent close by possibly even. Hi Dianne, Dating is something that is more appropriate for your grand daughter when she is 16 years old and it is wise to let her know that at that time she can date within a group of boys and girls.'gossip girl', 'desperate housewives', the CW channel, UPN, and even the regular ones. She can probably go to the movies with a group of friends but there is SAFETY in numbers. Dating one boy exclusively and putting herself in a situation where she will be alone with a boy (at a movie, at his house, at her house, at the mall, etc) is just asking for trouble. Dating is really only about one thing for kids these days - to engage is sexual activity.
And they always let me know that if I got in a bad situation, no matter what it was, that I could call them for help and they would come and get me.