Chat with fat girls
But that's not to say that there aren't men out there that aren't so focused on body size, but the odds IMO are reduced. To use a crass term, sometimes the best way to get over a man is to get under another. OG, I think a lot of the angst with size and online dating is the fact that some people are not honest about it, use old pictures or funny angles. If you are just honest and upfront, with realistic pictures, I am sure you won't have any dramas. In high school a guy and I would just get together. I have no idea so before heading into the world to date again I'm d like to research it a bit.I've already figured stuff out for if I need some casual thing.That way I've met people, struck up friendships, got together. I did online dating and be honest if you want to try this.Guys would be surprised because I looked like my photo, they would say that ladies would put up photos ten years younger and fifteen kilos lighter. A site like eharmony could be good, less brutal than the free sites.I'm not sure when I'll be up to it, but I want know that whenever I want to start dating that it might be possible.If I'm entirely honest I don't know that I might not just want a bit of sex for now.
Have you considered speed dating as an alternative to online dating? OG, I'd see a counsellor about your feelings around being fat. I've read three threads now this week, started by you, focussed on 'fat'.I had a friend of mine try and she is heavier and had success.The guys loved her but she wasn't into them in the end. In my group of friends, there is 5 of us trying online dating. I am overweight and I am having more success with meeting men and getting second dates than the slim girls.There are specialist dating sites for heavier women because that is some men's preferences.I am not sure how comfortable you would be dating some who wants to because you are fat though.